Yes, you probably could have had more positive, uplifting, perfect parents, siblings, guardians, teachers, background, environment, friends, politicians, country and weather as you were growing up.

But instead, you got what you got. It’s the hand you were dealt. How you’ve played that hand so far has lead you to where you are today, and you are either ecstatically happy and loving life, or, at some level, you are blaming the parents, siblings, guardians, teachers, background, environment, friends, politicians, country and weather that you were presented with during the first seven years or so of your life.

Add to the mix the arrival of significant others and a dash of broken relationships, with the loss of a few nearest and dearest along the way, and you have all the excuses you need to explain your Fucked Up Life…

‘If only they had given me this or that. If only they gave me more support, love, sex, money, reassurance, time… If only I had been born in that country at that time in that situation and circumstance. If only he would let me. If only she would let me. If only THEY would let me…  

Just Fucking Stop…

No, really; Just Fucking Stop…

Mark Denton Bevens

TheGuvnorsClub.com